lorem-ipsum-xvi said:
idk, i think it’s okay to find something sexy as long as you aren’t fetishizing it or, ya know, shipping real people. like, as a wlw, i am completely chill with heterosexual men watching wlw porn or fantasizing about women together AS LONG AS THEY ARE VOCALLY SUPPORTIVE OF LGBT+ PEOPLE. the problem isn’t finding wlw or mlm sex arousing—it’s the problematic, fetishizing, obsessive behavior that typically comes with it. 
