carlosdavidvaldes:

if ur bi/pansexual

• you can call yourself gay and queer (if you choose to reclaim the latter), bc u experience same-gender attraction
  
• you’re not in a “gay” or a “straight” relationship based on who you’re dating unless you want to define it as such yourself (you don’t need to let someone else define it for you)
  
• don’t be afraid to stand up for yourself if the validity of your sexuality is being questioned based on the relationship you’re in or if you’re more attracted to one gender than others
• also ur cute