yifera:

Hey, I say let men in your life know when they are cute. Do it. I went to try new glasses with my boyfriend, and I noticed him going back to a pair he wouldn’t usually go for and repeating “actually…” in a soft voice. So I asked him to show me. The glasses where round and thin and made his face look soft. He looked super cute. “Baby, you look fucking cute” i told him, because he did. He’s had those glasses for the past week and from time to time I tell him he looks good and he lights up and says “I’m so fucking cute”. He is. Men and masc folk are cute, and I want them to hear it more, earnestly, because it’s great to see them be shy and giddy and soft and proud and even cuter about it. I don’t think I need to justify myself more. Do it. Highly recommend. Godspeed.