mother-entropy:

trans-apostate-anders:

hot take uh

dont get mad at trans ppl for using the “wrong”/out of date terminology to describe their own experiences like

if a trans dude says “back when i was a girl” or “i was born in the wrong body” just. let them. if they feel it describes their experiences the best, then it’s good for them

as long as theyre not using it to describe other people who may not be comfortable with, it’s ok

THIS. i have had people correct me when i say things like “back when i was a girl.” say things like “no, you were never a girl, you just didn’t know it at that time.”

you are not the arbiter of my lived experience.

i know who i was then. don’t tell me i wasn’t because it doesn’t fit the narrative you want it to. it’s not your damn narrative.