nonbinary people can look and act like the most stereotypical expression of machismo and masculinity you can think of . btw. and until you reconcile that with how you view queerness and masculinity your allyship will always be flawed.
any queer person can be masculine and fat and hairy and balding and have a wife and kids and if that is also your image of the “Evil Cis Het Men” then you have not actually fully deconstructed bioessentialist narratives. And to do so you have to rid yourself of this idea that cishet men are the antithesis to queer people.











